Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.
~Henry David Thoreau
It seems as though from the moment we learn how to walk and talk, we are dreaming big dreams for ourselves. As a child, we not only believed deep in our little hearts that we would and could do whatever we wanted but everyone around us believed it too. They constantly told us that we could do whatever we set our minds to do.
Take a moment…..Close your eyes. Think back to those stress free days of childhood. What did you dream for yourself, for your life? Did you believe with every piece of your little heart that you would be the best firefighter in the world? Or the most famous movie star? What about the most beautiful supermodel to ever grace the covers of all the top fashion magazines in the world? Maybe you wanted to be an architect? Or for some maybe a superhero, who would rescue the world from all the bad, evil people of the world?
As a kid, we truly believed that we could do any of these things. So, what happened? What happens as we get older? Why do all our dreams seem to fade away? Is it fear? Or do we lose faith in ourselves because others lose faith in us? I ponder these questions often because I work with children every day. They speak with so much excitement and you can just see the gleam in their eyes as they speak their dreams to you. It’s amazing to hear and watch. It has truly inspired me.
You see, as a kid I had so many dreams for myself. I wanted to be just about anything you could possibly think of. I just knew whatever it was I could do it. The one thing that stuck out the most was my dream to be a dancer and to perform on Broadway. I have taken dance classes since the age of 3. The moment I stepped on a dance floor and a stage, I was in love. But as I started to think about my life after high school, I thought it would be smarter and less scary to just go the safe route and go to a 4-year college and major in something that could get me a “real” job. Wow, do I regret that. Not that college is a bad thing but I wish I would have just followed my heart and maybe went to a dance school or maybe went to New York. People feel like when they reach a certain age, they are too old to start something they have always wanted to do. For example, I have always wanted to play the violin but I got stuck playing the flute for 6 years and never got around to learning the violin. For years, I have been thinking I’m too old to pick it up now but I’ve realized I can’t do that to myself. I have to make myself happy and if that means ignoring the advice of some of the people I love the most then so be it. So, I’m here now and I’m tired of being fearful. I am not only determined to follow every dream I have ever dreamt but I want to share it with the world. So, I’m going to start with my first passion. Dance. I’m starting to train to dance again and I am currently studying to be a group fitness instructor so I can share my passion and inspire others to follow their dreams, no matter their age. You can never be too old to do what’s in your heart and make your dreams come to life.